If your attorney is not focused on winning, then you need another attorney!
I am focused on winning. I am not promising I will always win, but I always exercise my best efforts to win.
But by winning, I mean that I am acting ethically and equitably.
Your attorney must be winning fairly. If your current attorney
(1) Is manipulating a special advantage he/she has with the judge;
(2) Is dishonest with the court; or
(3) Is dishonest with the opposing party.
He/she will manipulate you and/or be dishonest with you. You need another lawyer.